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Introduction Change is the only constant in life. Every now and then, you will be surprised to hear that some of your long-lost friends have moved on to the next stage of life (e.g. getting married, raising child). Yet, we often find ourselves stuck in the same old routines, living happily within our comfort zones. There is a fear of making regrettable decisions that could potentially make our lives more miserable. NOTE: Change, though challenging and uncomfortable, presents an opportunity for growth. The Fear of Change and Cynicism When faced with tough situations, change is necessary to overcome them. Without change, we find ourselves stuck in the same cycle day after day. However, change is not easy and is filled with uncertainties , much like walking in the dark and exploring for a way out. The fear arises from our inability to control or foresee the outcomes, causing us to think of indefinite negative possibilities that may never come to pass. This, coupled with self-doubt (...